Hi. I'm intelligent and physically fit and often lonely, hoping to find a friend, a discreet partner, a confidant, lover. Wanting to add some passion and intimacy to fill a void. Spouse is ten years older and in declining health. I've recently retired, have some time and energy for a friend. I'm hoping to find someone for some intellectual banter; someone who enjoys the outdoor environment once in a while...normally I just go alone with my dog. I'm in decent shape, trying to keep from getting old...I like to hike, Ski, paddle canoes, sail.. otherwise, I have a very diverse set of interests from technical geeky stuff, arts, wine, rock 'n roll and I'm active in my church and the technical community. I hope to meet someone who'll become a discreet friend and confidant to build a bond that allows us to know each other and trust each other with those inner thoughts and secret desires.

My Ideal Person A lady..healthy and intelligent.someone, someone with some spunk and vinegar in her soul..some one equally comfortable in hiking boots and lingerie..physically fit, and healthy=sexy..who enjoys intellectual conversation and likes to be watched when she's being sexy. Someone who likes to hug in the rain and likes to be kissed. Someone who enjoys a beer after a hike, sipping a lovely red wine, and sharing the taste of oral sex.